The Conundrum of Strength

The conundrum of being a strong girl is that often the people who are attracted to you are weak.  It’s like the law of attraction coming back around to kick your butt. If you manage hard situations well, you gain competence and strength and that in turn brings people to you who need you to figure out their problems, to fix them.  And a good girl always helps others out.  It’s what makes her good.

A Good Girl’s Partial Lens on Why

At least in high school, my peers and I all had the commonality of believing that everything sucked.  College, by contrast, was a world of people talking about how great college life was,.