The Problem with Attachment Styles

I know that the various authors didn’t write the books on it to shame anyone, and they do have helpful guidance in how to establish a better relationship than the anxious-avoidant one I had been trapped in- but it really did make feel like a dented can in the discount section.  I was damaged, and only could make the most of my situation.

The Age of Attraction

Give me a guy ballsy enough to tell me in person what he’d like to do to me and not one who casts a wide net of selfies to see what he can drag in. And as someone who has been painfully sensitized to a partner’s ability to be unfaithful,  I don’t think I could ever trust that the guy who is unable to start a conversation with an attractive woman in real life would be able to be truthful with me about the really important stuff.  

A Good Girl’s Partial Lens on Why

At least in high school, my peers and I all had the commonality of believing that everything sucked.  College, by contrast, was a world of people talking about how great college life was,.