The Problem with Attachment Styles

I know that the various authors didn’t write the books on it to shame anyone, and they do have helpful guidance in how to establish a better relationship than the anxious-avoidant one I had been trapped in- but it really did make feel like a dented can in the discount section.  I was damaged, and only could make the most of my situation.

Mean People

I feel like the side of velcro that just picks up negative particles of cruelty and they are really hard to pull off.

Warning Signs

I was so ready to build a future, to move on and away from trauma, to be free and to be a grown-up that I allowed myself to ignore all kinds of warnings, and to consciously convince myself that this person would bring stability to my life. I threw all my eggs into that unstable basket.